He probably has no idea how it is affecting you. If you feel that his constant references to his deceased wife are making you feel threatened, cheated on and abandoned emotionally, talk to him about it. It's clear from the dream that you care about your boyfriend, but your dream identifies your concerns. Your recent unemployment and financial concerns may be responsible for some of the tornadoes on the horizon, but as your boyfriend's deceased wife remains front and center in the dream, they probably have more to do with your and his romantic past. The tornadoes in the dream reflect your concern that this "turbulence" is going to ravage your relationship and tear you apart. Do you feel that way because he talks about her all the time? Or, is she "in charge" in your dream because you let her be? Is the fact that he was happy with her make you feel vulnerable, because you feel that he is not as happy with you, and cheated on because that's who he thinks about. The deceased wife of your boyfriend takes charge in the dream because you feel on some level that she still has an active hold on him. In short, your dream reflects your feelings of insecurity about your relationship with your boyfriend, most likely due to his past marriage(s) and yours. Here are links to their definitions:Ĭheated on (what your bf does with his deceased wife):Ībandoned - by lover (what he did to you in the dream): In fact, your dream is an eloquent expression of your feelings about your waking life. Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation. Maybe that will give some of ya'll some insight into my life and help me with interpreting my crazy dream! My daughter (who is 6) and I both have seen shadows, and my daughter had pennies fall from thin air into her lap one night. Lights coming on by themselves, electrical appliances turning off by themself, doors opening to the point that sometimes I shut the same door 10+ times a day. I also tend to have "supernatural things" happen in the house when he isn't home. And him expressing that he was so happy with the last one, makes me sometimes feel as if I'm competing with a dead person. I sometimes feel like him being married three times before, that maybe he doesn't hang in there through thick and thin. He was married three times before finding the wife that he lost. He lost his wife about a year and a half ago and then went into a relationship with someone that failed rather quickly. We do live together, but I came out of a bad marriage, and am still a little gunshy. That being said, I have never gotten up the courage to actually tell him I love him. I'm very very much in love with my boyfriend and never dreamed that there could be a person as good as him available. I have been stressed about money and finding a job. I lost a very good job and am currently on unemployment, which will be running out soon. He seemed very happy to have me there and assured me that I was his one and only.I finally told him that I loved him. Apparently the house we were in at the time was a vacation home of some sorts. He held me tight as we watched the tornadoes all around us. His deceased wife directed me to where he was at. When I came back, he wasn't in the bathroom. We started putting everyone into a very small bathroom in the back of the house when I remembered the cat and the dog. There were lots of family at our house, mostly his family, even extended family. My boyfriend and I had a brief discussion then realized when walking outside that there were tornado sirens going off. The next morning, I went back to our house and she was still there. I did leave but didn't sleep well thinking that he was with her all night. He chased after me telling me that she had deceived him by faking her death to be on her own for a year. I was in shock at first, then eventually decided that he was in love with her more than me and told him I was leaving. She basically came in and took over as if she had never been gone. (She overdosed on prescription drugs and he woke up and found her dead one morning.) We had his grandson. His girlfriend/wife, that died a year ago, showed up. My boyfriend (whom I live with currently) and I were at home.
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